How to Know If a First Date Went Well

Published: 29th June 2011
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If you're uncertain of what happened at your first date, you need somebody to help you figure it out. Thatís where we come in; weíve collected several first date tips for men to help you clear all the uncertainties and know how it really went. Most of the time, if youíre doubtful it means there are 2 possibilities : you have several good reasons to think it went bad or you're just worrying too much. Either ways you should still call her and invite her someplace once again. Letís try to think back on how the date went.

Talking to her. Try to recall every moment when you were speaking with her. Who talked more, she did or you? If she talked more that means she was feeling comfy and chatty. If you spoke more, was she looking in your eyes, was she smiling, laughing? If she did then it's a good situation. If you interviewed her, did she answer easily, or did she raise her brows, give you a curious look as if itís a typical, cliche or boring question? Did she want to find out more about you? If she asks you about yourself thatís an indicator of interest. Did any uncomfortable silent moments take place during the conversation? You should avoid these moments as much as you can. If you canít find anything to say, try to look around perhaps you discover something humorous nearby to talk about.

Body language. How was she waving her hands, was she standing stiff, or was she waving her hands a lot? If she was waving a lot, thatís a great sign, it means she wants to communicate with you more. If she was touching her hair while talking with you, thatís another good sign. A bad sign is when she doesn't move with her arms closed; sheís probably indifferent or feeling uneasy. If you tried to loosen he up with a good story, thatís a great way to make her feel more comfortable. Was she leaning in to you when talking, or was she sitting back and just acknowledging everything you weíre saying? Leaning in to you is a sign of interest.

Touching her. Did you touch her, and if so, how did she respond? If you didn't even try to touch her, that's unquestionably a minus. If you touched her hand and she responded well, thatís a good sign. Did you try to kiss her, if so, how did she respond? You donít have to kiss her the first date but sometimes itís fine to let her know you want to kiss her, so if you tried and she pushed you away, most of the time it's not a bad sign, it just means she's not ready for a kiss yet.

Examine all these first date tips for men and think for a moment. If you believe you didnít mess up much then call her and ask her out once more. You might come back for those second date tips so go ahead and do it. Good luck!

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